TL would probably have an easier time getting along with everyone if he stopped calling every white or Asian person "racist". You can not call people a slew of nasty slurs and still expect them to like you. You can not call them racists if they dislike you after you say horrible things, call them pussies for being hurt about it --"it was weeks ago", and then turn around and cry about things that were said to you years ago. It goes both ways. And no, I'm not some "white bitch" saying this.
Then she couldn’t use those things to feel justified.